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2020.11.29 08:28 ThrowRAthemanguy Live sex and chat

First off, I’m extremely new and I’m sorry if there is something I did wrong or if you need more information
I am a 17-year-old black male (let’s call me J) while my ex is a white 18-year-old female (let’s call her H). We both attended the same school in (insert small town name) in Ohio. Some of the details are changed for anonymity, but the just of the situation is accurate.
We dated for upwards of 4 years, starting in 7th grade and ending in 11 (right before Covid hit). Our relationship was rocky, and honestly speaking, we were both a little toxic. To cite a specific instances, I would try to start confrontations over little things, and she would be controlling of who I hung out with. She also wanted to stay celibate till marriage, which I was okay with. I was there for her, not her body. Earlier sophomore year of our relationship I felt really depressed. I felt that I was not the right fit for someone like her, and tried to break off the relationship so that she could have someone better. She begged to stay with me and we ultimately ended up forgetting about it. A lot of the times we were at odds, whether it is me wanting to go to my best female friends birthday party after I hadn’t seen her for 3 years, or the fact that we didn’t go to the right slushy place, because she didn’t like their slushies. It was hard, but I knew when it came down to it, I loved her and she loved me, right? Fast forward and the day that Ohio schools got shut down, she pulls me into our school library to break up with me. She said that she’d always love me, that she still loves me, and maybe we could make it work later on. I texted her later that week to ask for reasons and she said that we had been drifting apart (which I did not agree with) and that she didn’t feel like I wanted to date her anymore because I tried breaking up with her. During quarantine, I got even more depressed, crying almost every night and thinking about things no 17-year-old should be. I ultimately ended up cutting contact with her for about 5 months. At this time she dated another boy and broke up with him (I don’t care about this, but it comes in use later). Fast forward to when quarantine lets up, and I meet a new 17-year-old female friend (let’s call her P). P was friends with H and me, and regularly invited us and a small group of other people to ice cream or bonfires. On one such occasion, H and I were waiting for others to arrive in her basement, when H started flirting with me hardcore (literally sitting on top of me while I was laying on her couch), and to be honest, I liked it. We planned a kayaking trip, where we relayed our feelings for each other, e still saying I still love her, and her saying that she still loved me too. We started secretly sneaking around, going on “workouts” and going “hiking” when I started getting doubts. One night I told her that I ended up getting drunk at a small gathering (yeah, I went to a party during the lockdown, yes I regret it) and lost my virginity. This came up in a conversation, and she all but had a panic attack. She cried and said that if it wasn’t me she was talking to, she would have broken up with me (her boyfriend during lockdown was not a virgin either, and neither was she {for separate reasons}). She got over it but kept bringing it up with “ I wish you wouldn’t have made that mistake” or something along with that nature. Honestly, I didn’t feel bad. I don’t know if I should, but it was all I could think to keep myself living at the time. My parents were not fans of H and all but hated her for what she put me through. This, along with my other family members, and my best friend not supporting our relationship ultimately made me cut ties with her again. I said that she really hurt me when she broke up with me and that I can’t trust her, and our relationship is turning into what it was before. She cried, but It ended. She kicked me out of the group chat that I was in with P, and told my best friend lies about how I was only trying to use her for sex (we didn't have sex). Looking back I only broke up with her because of everyone around me’s thoughts on her. Fast forward and she’s going through a rough patch in her life and needed someone there for her. I tried being her friend and took her out for ice cream and food. At this time, I realized I still love her and I told her about it. She said that she still loved me and that I was the only person she would ever love. We made out that day, and I thought that we might actually be fixing this. I was ready to build another relationship from the ground up, but better. Unfortunately later that week she said that she started talking to another guy and was happy with him. She said that maybe we could try again later. I was crushed but only had myself to blame. I wish I could have told her I needed more time instead of diving in headfirst into a relationship I wasn’t ready to work with. Even now, as I think about it, she was the only one that I actually felt cared about me. For a lot of the bad, there was so much good and we contemplated spending our lives together. Even now as I talk to other people and date around, I still don’t feel the same thing that I felt with her. Am I just conditioned or do I genuinely love her. My question to you Reddit is should I pursue her? We can still be friends, and I know that, but I know that I still love her and she still loves me and friends would never work because we would always be trying to date each other. Should I pursue her, or try to move on? It’s literally eating away at me night after night, and I’m not sure if I can handle it.
Thank you for reading!
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2020.11.29 01:45 Debuty_Donkey Did I do the Right thing by cutting "friends" out of my life, who made fun of me for liking a girl in our "friendgroup" in seperate Group chat?

Real quick, before I get started, then I put "friends" like this, what I mean is that, I don't really consider them friends atm.

So, my question is essentially: AITB for cutting these "friends" out of my life, for making this group behind my back, where they make fun of my feelings for this girl?
So, I have been in love with this girl, that I am friends with. We have flirted, made out, she has tried on multiple occasions to have sex with me (bad timing, or people around) held me back from doing so.
She also told me that she found me attractive.
So after about 2 months of this, I figured it was a fine time to ask her to be my GF. She Said no, which I accepted, I have been rejected before, and I have learned to accept it.
But the same evening I asked her to be my GF, I went to a party with 2 other people in my "friend group", (the girl I asked to be my GF, is also a part of the friend group). Anyway, as the night progress's I notice that whenever I speak up to initiate or join a conversation, I do not get the same attention nor respect I usually get, by only these 2 people (we were like 7 people at the party, btw we arranged it with Covid-19 rules in mind fyi). I did not really think too much about it for some time, but as I kept drinking it hit me: "The girl I asked to be my GF, might've shown or told them something, they can't accept (I gave the girl I asked, a really sweet love letter and stuff)".
So, after we had slept the night, and woke up, I asked if I could use a phone and call my parents, for them to go pick me up later, and just browsing in general, since my phone was dead. So yeah, I know this is of course morally questionable, but I had to know, so I booted up their messenger, and looked at, if they had a group for themselves, that I was not a part of. I only looked for this, as this was what was important to me.
And yeah, I found out that for the past month or so, they have had a group chat (separate for the one I am in), where they have made fun of text, I have sent my crush (she made the group chat), and in general, fun of my pursuit of her. They laughed at the idea of me asking her out, me just telling her how sweet she was, calling it: "Omg how Cringy". And such.
After this I became quite angry, and had an idea, that I am aware is illegal, but the potential punishment where I live is so low, so that it is viable. I had to know, what they have said to each other about me besides what was in the group chat.
So, I scrolled back, and found out that like one of my best friends told my crush I was going to ask her, after he asked if I was going to, and told him not to tell her. She even asked him to sit next to her, so I would not sit next to her, instead of just making it clear to me in the first place, that she was not interested.
I was furious at this point and decided to think about what I was going to do. So, I talked with my parents about it, and they told me, that even though, I was aware of searching though other people's phones is not good, that they could sympathize with it, because of the weird situation I was in (being ignored to a way larger extend than normally). They also told me that they seemed like awful friends for making of me liking her, and that she was a B*tch for pretending to like me, to probably get attention and have someone to laugh at.
I thought about it and agreed. I have blocked them on Snapchat, told them that I have found their group chat, and that I am deeply disgusted by it, and that no apology is needed (testing their moral character here, to see if they feel remorse), and that I would prefer, if they just left me alone, and that out friendship is over.
The girl who started it all, has seen it and has not responded (fair game), and the other guy in the group, well he told me lies about what the group was about (saying it was for helping the other girl in getting comfortable in rejecting me, since she did not like me), which as we know is not true, since I've read the damn text in the chat.
Note: I am the type of person, that normally takes a while to call somebody "friend", meaning I have expectations for them, as in not talking behind my back etc. Those people are just people I know. But if I do open myself for a friend, I am like an open book for them. I see friendship as a key to each other, to help each other through life.
So, my question is essentially: Do you agree with this approach of me cutting these people out of my life, since I consider them quite toxic? Or should I try to clean this mess up? My trust is just completly gone in them.
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Hey there! Today I’ve got a massive list of rp ideas and have written out some starters along with some ideas to how I see the rp going. I’m open to change and ready to do other ideas too. So if you feel like you’ve got an idea I might be interested in feel free to talk to me about those: ).
As for my replies. I write in first person mainly and my reply length varies. I generally do anything from a few sentences to a paragraph or more and generally require my partner to do the same. Fair warning the less detail you reply with the less interested I’ll be in rping with you. (Not looking for a few words as a response)
I enjoy having a story to go along with the smut so it’s not just constant sex, some cute or action driven moments are fun as well. – Hand holding and cute dates are pleasant! I mainly do my rps on kik, discord or here. I also have an RP facebook account, so feel free to ask for my users for those! : )
My kinks and limits list might be a big read, but none are compulsory. I’m just here to have fun and hopefully meet some cool rp partners : )
Kinks: Harems (Doesn’t mean having to play all characters at once, just one by one is fine!), Incest, Outercourse (Which is stuff like titjobs, thigh jobs, grinding, hot dogging) Risky public spaces (Toilet stalls, changing booths. That kinda thing where people could get caught.) Facials, Freckles (Face and body). Big/nicely shaped bums (Especially if they jiggle). Creampies, Cum on tits/body, big cumshots, Thigh high socks. showewater sex (pools, shower, hot tubs ect.) Mutual desire for sex.
Limits: Pregnancy (Hard limit sorry), Vomit, Piss, Blood, Toilet stuff, Rape, Gangbangs (Unless it’s multiple females) Male on Male, futas, rimming/pegging.
There might be more that I’m forgetting so if you’re unsure feel free to ask me! The rougher side of sex like Name calling, slapping choking spanking I can all do as well! : ) Without further ado let’s jump into the starters!
Disclaimer: I am 18+ and all participants and characters must be 18+
Here's the basic list of ideas if you wanted to look them over before reading the full posts. I’m also open to some ideas that I may have missed! And please note: I’m looking for FEMALE characters only!
Rule 34/Fandom/Game Ideas: Idea 1: My Harem (Hero) Academia. Idea 2: Pokémon Idea 3: Naruto Idea 4: Bleach Idea 5: One piece. Idea 6: Sword Art Online. Idea 7: Fairy Tail. Idea 8: Avatar The Last Airbender. Idea 9: Persona (Girls from 4 and 5). Idea 10: Harry Potter. Idea 11: Final Fantasy. Idea 12: The Witcher 3.
OC Ideas: Idea 13: Fantasy harem adventure. Idea 14: Only Man of the town. Idea 15: Zombie and Nuclear Apocalypse. Idea 16: Sci-Fi space crew.
Incest Ideas: Idea 17: Brother sisteMother son (Or both). Idea 18: Aunt/Cousin. (Can be both) Idea 19: Incest family vacation.
Idea 1: My Harem (Hero) Academia.
(So my character will be a transfer into Class 1-A. His power is the power of persuasion. With the power he’s able to convince someone to do something as if it’s their own will. However, he’s hesitant to use it on other people and to tell everyone he even has it as he’s been outcast at his last school for the villainous nature of his quirk. As such he can’t use it to its full extent and can only issue small commands to begin with.
My idea with this is that one or more (cannon or non) of the girls decide to help him out in a private setting and overtime it gets more and more sexual in nature. And as he becomes more confident, he’s able to issue more longer-term commands. This can also be mixed in well with some story and some action to keep the plot interesting.)
Starter: It was a day which started like most others in Class 1-A. The students got ready in the dorms and headed to class to chat among themselves while they waited for Aizawa to enter. However, unlike most days there seemed to be an extra desk placed in the room. The seat caused some confusion which didn’t last long as the first bell rang and Aizawa entered the room.
“Morning everyone.” He stated in his mainly bored and sleepy tone which seemed to sound like he was stifling a yawn. “Today we’ve got a new student transferring in from another school. He’s from Shiketsu, some of you may recognize the name since it’s got the same level as prestige as U.A. but regardless make sure he feels welcome.” He said pointing a sweeping stare at everyone and finally resting on the problem child of the U.A class Bakugo.
With that he fell silent and I felt it was my cue to enter. Swallowing a little at the nerves I steeled them quickly and entered. My blue eyes sweeping over some of the familiar faces in the room. Many of the students had standout performances in the UA sports festival and as well in the news reports about the villain attack on the training camp.
I had a lot to live up to if I wanted to join these legends in training but regardless, I was determined to do just that. Breathing a little and shifting my auburn hair from my eyes I smiled the best I could. “My name is Schwarzer, Chris Schwarzer. It’s a pleasure to meet you all.” I say bowing to the class.
Satisfied with the introduction Aizawa nodded to the spare seat in the room. Taking that as an order I nodded back and headed over to my seat sitting down and getting my books out. Curiously I turned to the seat next to me noticing one of the girls in the class and gave her a slight smile as Aizawa began his lesson.
Idea 2: Pokemon. (So this one is super simple. Some trainers or a trainer and his Pokémon go on a grand adventure. For this one my favourite Canon female are: Marnie, May, Hilda and May. And my favourite Anthro Pokémon are Lopunny, Arcanine, Blaiziken That’s just for reference though and you can really play whoever you like! Ocs are of course welcome too!)
Trainer x Trainer Starter:
I like many others in the world of Pokémon have just started on my journey. Although I had done so a little late. Regardless me and my starter Pokémon Aipom which was a gift from my late father. Setting off with excitement to make a name of myself.
That excitement wore off pretty quickly however as an advanced trainer stepped in my path and soon, I realized how big the gap between us was. He wiped the floor with my aipom and laughed as he took my “Prize money” Scooping up my aipom I rushed through the rest of the route and over to the next town ducking quickly into the Pokémon centre.
Looking around there was a few new trainers who seemed to have fallen to the same fate as I had and I shook my head. Guys like that were total assholes and without hesitating I headed over to the counter where the nurse took my Aipom from me. Once he was gone, I was told there was going to be a short wait due to the amount of Pokémon they had to treat. I nodded as I headed over and sat down in one of the seats.
Idea 3: Naruto. (So for this one I like the idea that my character is a nomadic mercenary hired by the leaf to help train the ninja of the village, maybe he also has some kind of hidden power that boosts his chakra but also increases his libido. Not too sure how I wanna go about this one.)
Starter: The Hokage Tsunade Senju looked over me with a curious gaze and then down to my application form. “You’re younger than I expected given everything you’ve done.” She stated honestly. “But the intelligence division did a thorough search into you and you check out.” She stated as she slammed the approved stamp down onto my paper.
“Just remember, if you do anything to endanger this village, I’ll snuff you out personally.” She said in an icy and threatening tone. Feeling a cold bead of sweat roll down the side of my face I nodded. “Of course. I wouldn’t dream of it.” I say. Internally I make a mental note not to cross her in any way.
“Good.” She said putting a smile across her features. “Your first group is down on the training field waiting for you already.” She stated. “Your lodgings will be set up by the time you’re done, here’s the key.” She said tossing the key to me which I caught and stuffed into my pocket. I was a little shocked with how quick she wanted me to get to work but I nodded. “Right!” I say giving a respectful bow before heading out.
It took me a little longer than expected to actually find the training grounds as I hadn’t ever been here before. And when I got there much to her credit there were a few ninja standing around. Approaching them I gave them a sheepish smile. “Sorry I’m late guys.” I called out. “I got lost.” I added on.
Idea 4: Bleach. (So a new human soul reaper makes it into the soul society. His power isn’t captain level to begin with simply being enough to take out the average hollow. And with the resurgence of the hollow threat the Soul Society has offered to give him a substitute badge to take out those hollows deemed too small for the soul society to handle. Maybe he’s paired up with someone or someone like Orihime steps in to help him grow.)
Starter: Another boring day at school followed by a night of boring patrols. With all the big hollows being taken care of by “Full-fledged” Soul reapers it didn’t leave me with much opportunity to train against bigger enemies.
At least that’s what I thought originally. A few blocks from me there was a rift which opened up and the pure spiritual pressure that came from the hollow that stepped out of it was enough to make me feel as though gravity itself was pushing against me.
It was hard to breathe and even harder to stand as my hand clutched my blade in my left hand tightly. I shook my head as I heard the loud roar of the large breast and could even see it’s towering form from my position.
It was nothing close to a menos, but it was enough to tower over a three-story building for sure. “Shit.” I hissed to myself as I knew there were no soul reapers around at this stage. With a threat this big I was sure they’d come, but until then it was up to me to buy some time and make sure no humans or souls were consumed.
Pushing myself forward I reached the park that the Hollow had appeared in. Thankfully the park was deserted at this time of night. When he saw me the hollow. “You don’t smell like much, but you’ll do as a snack.” The hollow commented as it charged forward. “Just evade, buy time.” I comment to myself as I began to leap around the battle field looking a bit like and feeling like an idiot.
The hollow toyed with me a little while enjoying the chase before it seemed to ger bored. Just when I was thinking I was fast enough to keep avoiding it the creature’s mouth opened and its forked tongue shot out at me with faster speed than I was anticipating I raised my blade to defend myself but it was a feeble attempt and I knew it wouldn’t be enough.
Idea 5: One Piece. (So I’m not quite sure how to approach this one, but I’ll give it a go. Much like the MHA starter my character will have the power of persuasion, having eaten the Persua-Persua fruit. I’m thinking either he joins the Strawhats and goes on their adventures or he makes his own crew with girls from the story, I’m gonna leave it fairly open ended so we can jump in whenever along the story we wanna go!)
Starter: Alone in a bar I sat staring in the amber liquid in my mug. I was down on my luck after having my whole crew and my ship destroyed in a long battle another pirate crew. The only reason I was able to live through the ordeal was due to my crew sacrificing themselves to give me a chance to escape.
I spent days adrift with little food and water and soon washed up upon the island I was in. Immediately I found a tavern ready to drown my sorrows and feel sorry for myself for a little while.
Letting out a sigh I downed the rest of my drink soon looking at the few drops of liquid bottom of my mug. I knew being a pirate wouldn’t be easy, I knew it’d be violent and end in violence. However, to lose in that fashion without even being able to use my devil fruit to calm or question our opponent and losing everything still took its toll on me.
Scratching at the growing stubble with one hand, the other I raised my mug to demand another drink and as such the bartender approached to fill my mug. “You’re looking a little rough there, you sure you need another?” The bartender asked as he took the mug from me. “I don’t have anything else to do. I don’t even know what else to do with myself.” I responded grumpily. “Just fill it up.” I demanded. “Right.” The bartender responded as he filled it with more of the alcoholic amber liquid and slid It in front of me.
Idea 6: Sword Art Online. (Fairly simple it’s SAO set in the original death game. I love the idea, so I’ve always loved rping this one. If you want to play canon characters my fave is for sure Lizbeth, but I’m open to OC characters!)
Starter: It’s been months since Akihiko Kayaba has trapped us into this death game. Or at least that’s how some people looked at it. Others saw it as their dream come true. But most if not, all wanted to push forward and beat the game.
Despite the desire to push forward little progress has been made. Guilds and parties have formed to push through dungeons but with the increased danger and with it more deaths; more and more people simply decided to live out their lives on the lower floors.
Unlike those rushing in to push through the content I was happy enough to go through it at my own pace. This place was like a dream for me, save for the fact I had an increased chance of dying I was able to live in this game without the worries of the outside world.
I was doing some late-night grinding in an area of dense forest. The sun had set and there was little light save for the bright moon poking through the trees. All was calm, the trees swayed with the wind and the occasional sound of creatures moving about was enough to calm me.
However, the deeper I got into the forest the louder a sound became. At first it was quiet but as I approached, I heard it more clearly. It sounded like steel clashing against steel. Someone was fighting. Moving from a casual walk into a jog I quickly came to a small clearing where I saw two figures fighting, although in the low light I couldn’t make it out until I got closer.
Idea 7: Fairy Tail. (it’s been a little while since I’ve seen the series, but I’ve always loved it! Given my time away I might have to take some time to refamiliarize myself with the magics. My character will simply be an entry level member into the guild to begin with, canon characters are welcome just as OCs are!)
Starter: Another day in magnolia and another party being held at the large guild building at the centre of town. A large-scale job had just finished with some of the senior ranking wizards. and even though I wasn’t part of that mission, instead being on my own D-Rank job I joined in on the celebrations.
I had only been part of the guild for a few days and so far, it’s not been as exciting as I’d hoped, although I figured that it’d pick up once I proved myself. I was drinking by myself when I was approached by Makarov. He was wearing an essentric looking orange outfit. “Schwarzer my boy!” He said as he patted me on the shoulder. “How are you fitting in?” He questioned. “Fine sir! Everyone has been very welcoming.” I say to him in response. “Glad to hear it! You’ve been doing a good job, although I’d like to see you do more.” The male said. “So I’ve arranged a partner for you on your next job, that way you can take something more challenging, what do you say?” He questioned.
“Yes of course!” I say eagerly as a smile spread across my face. “Great!” He said cheerfully. “I’ll introduce you to who you’ll be working with.” He said as he stood from his spot and lead the way over to a female clearing his throat loud enough to get their attention.
Idea 8: Avatar the Last Airbender. (So for this one I guess it can go two different ways. My fave girls from Avatar would probably be Ty Lee, Suki and Toph. Maybe my character is a powerful bender that either the fire nation or team Avatar wants on their side. I think it might be cool to think that Aang isn’t the only airbender and instead a small faction managed to escape and continue the lineage. Either that or my character is a powerful firebender of some kind. I’ll leave whichever you prefer to you in your first reply as I’ll leave it open ended.)
Starter: The world was at war ever since the Fire nation attacked. With the intense fighting came mercenaries. Freelance benders or soldiers ready to fight on either side. For a fee of course. And despite my age, being only eighteen I was quite renown amongst the other bounty hunters for my bending.
Of course, there were talks of the Avatar returning, having repelled an invasion in the south pole, the liberation of Omashu and then the fire nation prison. It seemed they were making quite the stir in the earth kingdom.
It’d only be a matter of time before they reached the small town, I was in. Perhaps they were already here. But if that was the case surely there would be some kind of stir. Pushing my hair from my face I ordered another drink from the barkeep. “You know you’re my favourite customer Schwarzer…. You’re the only one who consistently pays his tab. Unlike the rest of these soldiers or the workers around here.” The older man says in clear annoyance.
“Well who knows, if I wasn’t so successful, I’d probably mooch off you too.” I admitted with a grin. “Try not to talk too ill of the soldiers on either side.” I added on flicking him an extra coin for a tip once my drink was finished. “Well I better check if anyone has a job for me.” I say as I pushed myself up from my seat.
Idea 9: Persona. (So basically this is just gonna be a fairly interesting idea. My character along with the girls of persona 4 and 5 get stranded in this strange dimension where they have to fight their way out to make it back to their own worlds.)
Starter: It all happened so fast. One minute I was in a team meeting with my group discussing what we should use our newfound powers for next. And the next second, I had blinked and I was in some kind of strange room.
One by one more people were added into this room. Some of which were dressed in some elaborate costumes. And I frowned as I looked to each one of them, all of which I didn’t recognize at all and judging by their looks they didn’t recognize me. Although before we managed to introduce ourselves a booming voice broke the silence.
“Welcome all!” The clearly male voice commented. “To the room of my design.” He added on. “I’m sure you’re all confused. And no doubt you’ll want to return back to your homes. However, to do so you’ll need to enter my labyrinth. “Make it to the end and you’ll all return home.” The voice explained.
“Of course, this maze isn’t without its dangers. Enemies, much like you encounter on a regular basis will roam these halls. As well as beasts of my own design far stronger than those… Fear no though for every check point you reach this room will become more furnished with amenities. For now, you simply have beds to rest on.” He said as there was an audible click and the dark room was suddenly lit up. Sure, enough there were rows of beds all lined up one for each person to sleep on.
“When you’re ready to test yourselves step through this door and enter the first level of the labyrinth.” He declared as a large door appeared and opened up in front of them. For a while nobody said anything probably all too stunned to even process the information. “So, I’m guessing we’re all persona users given what he just said.” I spoke up. “I guess we should probably start with names and strengths, right?” I questioned the group. “I’m Chris Schwarzer.” I say. “My persona Serapth focuses on ranged combat.” I explained.
Idea 10: Harry Potter. (So to keep this one interesting I’m thinking of having it set in an AU where Voldemort and Harry don’t exist. However, there are still dark wizards who are part of a cult around. Defs looking for a Hermionie, Luna or Ginny, you could even have other celebs/ecelebs as teachers or students for this one! Ocs are of course welcome too!)
Starter: Another year at Hogwarts, the last for some; and another year of learning was right around the corner. Although times were not peaceful in the wizarding world. Aurors who were the police of the magical world were going missing or showing up dead.
The ministry not wanting to make a panic kept it fairly under wraps, however some of the families have come forward with the information and rumours abounded about what was really happening. Stepping off the train I sighed a little rubbing my temple where a headache had begun to set in. During the train ride here, I found myself stuck next to a boy who wouldn’t stop going on about the rumours and conspiracy theories.
Glad to be off the train I looked around for a minute lost as to where I needed to go. “I know it’s around here somewhere.” I commented, although my sense of direction was always off. Usually I followed everyone else. But this time it seemed I was one of the last ones off the train.
Idea 11: Final Fantasy. (So this is simply going to be an idea with no starter since it will probably change depending on the many FF universes. My favourite however is defs FF7. (Tifa, Jessie and Aerith are best girls) with follow-ups being 12, 13, 15, 10, 8 and 9. Basically a fight would take the Main character of those series, Cloud, Noct, ect out of commission and needing a leader the other characters step up and hire mine on. Similar to some of my other prompts but I never said I was creative :^) With that being said though if you ARE interested in this one let me know and we can work out details depending on what world we’re in!)
Idea 12: The Witcher 3. (So my character will be a Witcher. (wow!) Saving people, hunting things you know? The family business. Anyway, I’m gonna leave it super open ended for you to come in however you like! If you wanna play a canon character my top two are for sure Ciri and Trist, and OC characters are accepted too!)
Starter: A Werewolf, an odd and rare contract, although I figured it wouldn’t be a hard one. In face I figured with my silver blade that the creature would go down rather quickly. Starting the encounter, I was faced with a harsh reality due to my hubris. I started off well enough, however due to my carelessness I was quickly on the backfoot.
The beast roared as it swung its large clawed hand towards me. I had barely managed to roll out of the way of the attack. Probably due to the increasing levels of bloodless resulting in a careless action on my part. A level of confidence quickly pushed down by the fact a handful of open wounds stung at my flanks.
More scars for later given that I make it out of here, although with my silver blade thrown on the other side of the area leaving me with only a steel sword which barely even phases the thing. I had to reach my blade, although with my focus on dodging the attacks it was hard to find an opening to do so.
I raised a hand and cast the igni sign launching flames at the creature who leapt back and I tried my best to make it past the creature only to have to dodge another strike as the beast recovered remarkably fast. “Stubborn bastard, aren’t you?” I questioned a little sourly.
Idea 13: Fantasy harem adventure. (This one is fairly basic in nature. Basically, a young man with little combat experience leaves his poor hunting village once he’s of age and sets off to join the adventurer’s guild to make a name for himself and also to send money back home. He’s fairly modest, naive and kind hearted. Which makes him likable and easy to take advantage of.
We could add a story with war elements, racism and darker themes to show him that the world he idolizes isn’t as cracked up as he thought it’d be. Ideally, I’d like a full harem party for this one but I’m cool with one on one too.)
Starter: It had been a few days since I was finally able to leave the small village, I was raised in behind me. Sword on hip and keen to become an adventurer. Of course, I also wanted to make a name for myself and I was even more excited to see everything the world had to offer. With driving me forward I headed from my village over to the closest city which had a guild branch. A city called Ruan. It was nearly five times the size of my village if not more and yet it was nothing close to the capital city of Grancel.
Smooth dirt paths soon gave way to cobblestone and my boots clacked rhythmically against the pavement as my steps soon got faster and faster as Ruan came into view. My stomach was in knots as I gripped the straps on my bag tightly and after steeling my nerves and taking in the sight of the large city, I headed through the large stone arch to the busy streets beyond.
My excited eyes looked around at every nook and cranny as I took in every detail that was on offer. Soon coming across the large marble and wood building of the adventurer’s guild in front of me. I stood in front of the large building clearly awestruck and for a moment I felt completely overwhelmed. This was it. This was the first step I was going to take on my journey and yet I felt far too nervous to head inside. Instead I stood there shaking slightly as I tried to work up the courage to push those large oak doors aside and declare my presence to the world.
Idea 14: Man of the town. (So again the premise is also pretty basic. My character wakes up in a town where there’s no men, as if they all vanished at once. Including his father which leaves him home alone with his sister and mother. (It’s up to you if you want incest in the plot or not.) We can have a story with an element of mystery to it too if you want! Or we can just bounce around the town having him bonk as many different people as you want.)
Starter: It’s been a few weeks since all the men in the town vanished one day. One day they were there and the next they were gone. There was of course a panic even though it is much calmer than originally, it continues to creep in the back of everyone’s mind. It doesn’t help the fact that no outsiders have come into the town and some strange thick fog seems to stop everyone from leaving.
However, with no answers it was left to the women of the town to pick up the slack and try to push for some level of normalcy. Except for me it seemed. Since the whole act started, I was in lockdown not being free to leave my home since my mother and sister was much too paranoid that I’d disappear too. With the amount of time I spent indoors going stir crazy I began to wonder if it was better to be wherever the rest of them are.
Today was different though and finally I was given the chance to leave the house while my mother was careless and rather quickly, I headed out into the street just glad to take in the scenery as I headed over to a nearby park. I headed over the soft grass feeling it beneath my shoes and then to the pond where I took a seat on one of the mounted benches.
Idea 15: Zombie and Nuclear Apocalypse. (Not a whole lot to say here other than it’s one of your run of the mill Zombie/Nuclear apocalypse scenarios. I might toy with the idea of having multiple zombie types like games such as Dying light and Left for dead in order to spice things up a little but we’ll see where we go with it. As for nuclear I’ll probably be following along the Fallout franchise. Being part of these worlds will probably make my character a bit more brash, blunt and even a little rude. However, given some time he’ll warm up.)
Zombie Starter: No one knows quite when the outbreak started, however it swept over the globe causing panic. People eating people. People dying and coming back to life as a shambling corpse joining the armies of similar creatures. Society crumbled over time and the cities which were now hot zones for hordes of the undead creatures were left abandoned to all but the most daring or desperate of individuals. However, these rabid hordes weren’t the only thing to look out for in the apocalypse.
Society had begun to reform in its most primal form. People grouped together for safety. Those who just wanted to live peacefully became easy prey for those who saw the end of the world as we knew it as a playground to kill pillage and steal what they’d like. These bandits created their own factions with their own fortresses and seemed to have an endless supply of guns and ammo as they used it quite liberally.
I had been on the trail of a particularly nasty group of bandits as they razed whatever small settlements, they had to the ground callously and without mercy. I had just arrived at one of these towns. Dying people lay scattered about while fires licked at the makeshift buildings. It was still quite fresh. Approaching a nearby body which seemed to be moving slightly I turned it over the man was in bad shape and was clearly on death’s door. His eyes looking into mine in a pleading sense.
“Do you want me to make it quick?” I asked him reaching my left hand down to my machete which hung on my belt. Weakly his hand reached out to grip my right as he gave a nod. I knew the death wouldn’t be clean, as I unsheathed my blade. However, I couldn’t waste any ammo on my pistol nor could I risk tipping off the bandits that did this that I was following them. With a quick swing I slammed the blade into the head of the man ending his life and after wiping the blade off on his shirt I slid it back into its sheath my eyes scanning the immediate area for any of the undead which had turned or for a slim chance of getting a glimpse of survivors.
Nuclear Apocalypse Starter:
The world as we knew it ended in a flash. A white light followed by a rumble which washed over the world in nuclear fire. Billions died then and there reducing the world’s population to the brink. Those who were lucky to survive a direct blast were mutated to become much different than humans and more akin to zombies. Those outside of it didn’t have much quality of life as the radiation created mutated creatures which made living in a barren wasteland that much harder.
There were others however who were lucky enough to be given a spot in giant underground vaults. There they lived out their lives separated from the horrors that this new world wrought. One by one these vaults opened to allow these vault dwellers into the wasteland that was our world.
Their blue suits and clueless natures made them stand out and become easy prey to raiders, giant creatures and everything in between. Many of them didn’t get far before being gutted and robbed for their illusive vault suits which earned enough to feed a scavenger or bandit for a month.
The world and society began to rebuild. And with small settlements and towns popping up here and there it wasn’t all doom and gloom for the wasteland. Many were able to create jobs in local milita, mercenary work. Even trading or bartending.
I was such a mercenary a few generations of my family lived through the bombing and the radiation which was lucky enough for me, I guess. I was hired to do whatever someone wanted for the right price. And today I was tasked with delving into a recently opened vault and check make contact with the inhabitants inside.
Colt python on my waist I headed over to the large vault door which at this point was sealed shut and knocked loudly. This job seemed rather easy and was paying a lot which made me wonder who I was working for and what purpose they had with these vault dwellers. However, I wasn’t paid to ask questions nor did I really care at the end of the day. The less I knew the less guilt I could feel.
Idea 16: Space/Scifi. (So this is a scifi adventure. My character is the captain of his own ship and is currently looking for recruits to join him and help run it. There will probably be lots of interesting planets our characters go to and I’ll certainly be making them up as we go along! Your character can range as anything from a human to android or even an alien.)
Starter: Stepping out of The Tempest I breathed in the humid station air of Astra station. The station which was on the furthest reaches of the space ruled over the galactic council; was a haven for the depraved. Outlaws, mercenaries, drug dealers you name it Astra has it and in bountiful supply too.
Which made it a perfect spot to find someone who was desperate to get off the station. Someone who would work for cheap or for free. All I needed to do was to find them. “Schwarzer, don’t forget to stock up on food, military rations are sad.” A voice commented through the earpiece I had. “Yeah. I’ll head through the slums and to the market. Thanks, Evai.” I responded. “And don’t cause any trouble, I don’t wanna rot in this ship while you’re dead.” The voice added on. “Yeah yeah I’ve got it.” I responded as the communication line was severed and I started on my walk.
I headed through a nearby door and down into the depths of the station. Soon I the overcrowded and frankly smelly slums. Beggars and gang members lined every corner all looking at me with a cautious eye as I passed. There were even a few tweaked out drug users laying scattered about in some dark corners. Even a few corpses.
I didn’t stop though, if you stayed in one place too long down here you were asking to be jumped and quickly, I pushed on heading over to the bustling markets. The food quality here wasn’t the best although it was abundant. I even talked to a few of the store owners to see if they knew where I could find the extra hands to help me on my ship.
Idea 17: Brother sisteMother son (Or both). (So, this starter is gonna be fairly generic, however it’s open to allowing any of the familial ties to be easily included. I have a few ideas for immediate family and will post them below and if you have any ideas, I’m happy to hear them.)
Starter: It’s a hot and lazy day in the middle of summer break. I had laid splayed out on the couch at home. Despite the air conditioner being on full blast my skin underneath my tank top was getting stuck to the leather couch; which did little to alleviate the heat fluster that was going on. I sighed after looking over the back of the couch to the pool outback longingly. I sighed a little resigning myself to bite the bullet and peeled myself from the couch.
As much as I wanted to strip down and run out, I wasn’t entirely sure if I was home alone and as such, I headed up to my room to change into a pair of swimming trunks before heading back downstairs. Passing through the laundry and grabbing a towel on the way.
I headed onto the back deck and draped my towel over the railing before I rushed over and leapt into the pool immediately feeling the cool water wash away any of the heat I had been feeling. I resurface and breathed a sigh of relief as I pushed my messy hair back from my face.
Idea 18: Aunt/Cousin (Can be both). (Again like the incest scene above I’m not quite sure how to spruce this one up so I’ll leave it rather basic and we can go from there.)
Starter: My family has gone on holiday without me as I had to stay behind due to being caught up in exams. Rather than meeting up with them later they decided it would be more fun for me if I finished them up then headed over to spend some time with my Aunt and my cousin across the county. While I wouldn’t be leaving the country, I was still getting a vacation in a way and as such I tried my best to be upbeat and positive about it, even if I was envious of the others.
While it wasn’t the same pristine beaches and high-class resorts that the rest of my family was going to, I was still grateful for the hospitality. The plane lands in the airport and after collecting my bags and checking my phone for a confirmation I was going to be picked up I sent my family and my aunt and cousin a quick text telling them I landed safely. After gathering my small suitcase from the conveyor belt, I wheeled it through security and out to the meeting area keeping my eyes peeled for any sign of my cousin or my auntie. There was a little confusion about who was going to greet me so I wasn’t sure who to expect myself.
Idea 19: Incest family vacation. (So, this one is again going to be like the other two before it. They kinda roll off each other in a way. However, I believe it allows for a wide range of engagements with multiple characters at some kind of beach resort.)
Starter: It’s the dead middle of another scorching summer and rather than tough it out in our homes which has air-conditioning which never seemed to help, our large family decided to all go to a large resort (Could even be a cruise too) together. Many of the rooms were rather luxurious and I was more than excited to see what the rest of the hotel had to offer.
We pulled up into the lobby and while the parents were checking in I headed over to check out a map on the wall. It seemed there were quite a lot of different things to do around the resort. There was a pool with a poolside bar, a beach which had volleyball games, a massage parlour, hot tubs and many different activities ranging from native dances to eating competitions.
Just the realization we were here and the excitement at the many possibilities that could come from the vacation. Maybe I’d even meet someone nice and have a vacation fling. Although with so many family members running around, I doubted that I’d get much peace to do that. Regardless I was eager to get up to the room, have a shower and change into my swimming trunks to explore all the different places.
We headed up to the rooms where I noticed mine had a large double bed. However, judging by my mother’s comments outside It seemed there was some kind of mix-up in the rooms and I’d be sharing the room with one of my family members. Not that I minded too much. I placed my suitcase down and waited to see who would come in and if they were interested in joining me look around.
Closing words: So yeah that’s about it! Thanks for reading and if you have any questions or suggestions, I’m open to hearing them! I know this was probably a big read so thanks again for your time and I hope to talk to some of you soon!
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2020.11.29 01:34 Joker_ERP Live chat and sex

Hey there! Today I’ve got a massive list of rp ideas and have written out some starters along with some ideas to how I see the rp going. I’m open to change and ready to do other ideas too. So if you feel like you’ve got an idea I might be interested in feel free to talk to me about those: ).
As for my replies. I write in first person mainly and my reply length varies. I generally do anything from a few sentences to a paragraph or more and generally require my partner to do the same. Fair warning the less detail you reply with the less interested I’ll be in rping with you. (Not looking for a few words as a response)
I enjoy having a story to go along with the smut so it’s not just constant sex, some cute or action driven moments are fun as well. – Hand holding and cute dates are pleasant! I mainly do my rps on kik, discord or here. I also have an RP facebook account, so feel free to ask for my users for those! : )
My kinks and limits list might be a big read, but none are compulsory. I’m just here to have fun and hopefully meet some cool rp partners : )
Kinks: Harems (Doesn’t mean having to play all characters at once, just one by one is fine!), Incest, Outercourse (Which is stuff like titjobs, thigh jobs, grinding, hot dogging) Risky public spaces (Toilet stalls, changing booths. That kinda thing where people could get caught.) Facials, Freckles (Face and body). Big/nicely shaped bums (Especially if they jiggle). Creampies, Cum on tits/body, big cumshots, Thigh high socks. showewater sex (pools, shower, hot tubs ect.) Mutual desire for sex.
Limits: Pregnancy (Hard limit sorry), Vomit, Piss, Blood, Toilet stuff, Rape, Gangbangs (Unless it’s multiple females) Male on Male, futas, rimming/pegging.
There might be more that I’m forgetting so if you’re unsure feel free to ask me! The rougher side of sex like Name calling, slapping choking spanking I can all do as well! : ) Without further ado let’s jump into the starters!
Disclaimer: I am 18+ and all participants and characters must be 18+
Here's the basic list of ideas if you wanted to look them over before reading the full posts. I’m also open to some ideas that I may have missed! And please note: I’m looking for FEMALE characters only!
Rule 34/Fandom/Game Ideas: Idea 1: My Harem (Hero) Academia. Idea 2: Pokémon Idea 3: Naruto Idea 4: Bleach Idea 5: One piece. Idea 6: Sword Art Online. Idea 7: Fairy Tail. Idea 8: Avatar The Last Airbender. Idea 9: Persona (Girls from 4 and 5). Idea 10: Harry Potter. Idea 11: Final Fantasy. Idea 12: The Witcher 3.
OC Ideas: Idea 13: Fantasy harem adventure. Idea 14: Only Man of the town. Idea 15: Zombie and Nuclear Apocalypse. Idea 16: Sci-Fi space crew.
Incest Ideas: Idea 17: Brother sisteMother son (Or both). Idea 18: Aunt/Cousin. (Can be both) Idea 19: Incest family vacation.
Idea 1: My Harem (Hero) Academia.
(So my character will be a transfer into Class 1-A. His power is the power of persuasion. With the power he’s able to convince someone to do something as if it’s their own will. However, he’s hesitant to use it on other people and to tell everyone he even has it as he’s been outcast at his last school for the villainous nature of his quirk. As such he can’t use it to its full extent and can only issue small commands to begin with.
My idea with this is that one or more (cannon or non) of the girls decide to help him out in a private setting and overtime it gets more and more sexual in nature. And as he becomes more confident, he’s able to issue more longer-term commands. This can also be mixed in well with some story and some action to keep the plot interesting.)
Starter: It was a day which started like most others in Class 1-A. The students got ready in the dorms and headed to class to chat among themselves while they waited for Aizawa to enter. However, unlike most days there seemed to be an extra desk placed in the room. The seat caused some confusion which didn’t last long as the first bell rang and Aizawa entered the room.
“Morning everyone.” He stated in his mainly bored and sleepy tone which seemed to sound like he was stifling a yawn. “Today we’ve got a new student transferring in from another school. He’s from Shiketsu, some of you may recognize the name since it’s got the same level as prestige as U.A. but regardless make sure he feels welcome.” He said pointing a sweeping stare at everyone and finally resting on the problem child of the U.A class Bakugo.
With that he fell silent and I felt it was my cue to enter. Swallowing a little at the nerves I steeled them quickly and entered. My blue eyes sweeping over some of the familiar faces in the room. Many of the students had standout performances in the UA sports festival and as well in the news reports about the villain attack on the training camp.
I had a lot to live up to if I wanted to join these legends in training but regardless, I was determined to do just that. Breathing a little and shifting my auburn hair from my eyes I smiled the best I could. “My name is Schwarzer, Chris Schwarzer. It’s a pleasure to meet you all.” I say bowing to the class.
Satisfied with the introduction Aizawa nodded to the spare seat in the room. Taking that as an order I nodded back and headed over to my seat sitting down and getting my books out. Curiously I turned to the seat next to me noticing one of the girls in the class and gave her a slight smile as Aizawa began his lesson.
Idea 2: Pokemon. (So this one is super simple. Some trainers or a trainer and his Pokémon go on a grand adventure. For this one my favourite Canon female are: Marnie, May, Hilda and May. And my favourite Anthro Pokémon are Lopunny, Arcanine, Blaiziken That’s just for reference though and you can really play whoever you like! Ocs are of course welcome too!)
Trainer x Trainer Starter:
I like many others in the world of Pokémon have just started on my journey. Although I had done so a little late. Regardless me and my starter Pokémon Aipom which was a gift from my late father. Setting off with excitement to make a name of myself.
That excitement wore off pretty quickly however as an advanced trainer stepped in my path and soon, I realized how big the gap between us was. He wiped the floor with my aipom and laughed as he took my “Prize money” Scooping up my aipom I rushed through the rest of the route and over to the next town ducking quickly into the Pokémon centre.
Looking around there was a few new trainers who seemed to have fallen to the same fate as I had and I shook my head. Guys like that were total assholes and without hesitating I headed over to the counter where the nurse took my Aipom from me. Once he was gone, I was told there was going to be a short wait due to the amount of Pokémon they had to treat. I nodded as I headed over and sat down in one of the seats.
Idea 3: Naruto. (So for this one I like the idea that my character is a nomadic mercenary hired by the leaf to help train the ninja of the village, maybe he also has some kind of hidden power that boosts his chakra but also increases his libido. Not too sure how I wanna go about this one.)
Starter: The Hokage Tsunade Senju looked over me with a curious gaze and then down to my application form. “You’re younger than I expected given everything you’ve done.” She stated honestly. “But the intelligence division did a thorough search into you and you check out.” She stated as she slammed the approved stamp down onto my paper.
“Just remember, if you do anything to endanger this village, I’ll snuff you out personally.” She said in an icy and threatening tone. Feeling a cold bead of sweat roll down the side of my face I nodded. “Of course. I wouldn’t dream of it.” I say. Internally I make a mental note not to cross her in any way.
“Good.” She said putting a smile across her features. “Your first group is down on the training field waiting for you already.” She stated. “Your lodgings will be set up by the time you’re done, here’s the key.” She said tossing the key to me which I caught and stuffed into my pocket. I was a little shocked with how quick she wanted me to get to work but I nodded. “Right!” I say giving a respectful bow before heading out.
It took me a little longer than expected to actually find the training grounds as I hadn’t ever been here before. And when I got there much to her credit there were a few ninja standing around. Approaching them I gave them a sheepish smile. “Sorry I’m late guys.” I called out. “I got lost.” I added on.
Idea 4: Bleach. (So a new human soul reaper makes it into the soul society. His power isn’t captain level to begin with simply being enough to take out the average hollow. And with the resurgence of the hollow threat the Soul Society has offered to give him a substitute badge to take out those hollows deemed too small for the soul society to handle. Maybe he’s paired up with someone or someone like Orihime steps in to help him grow.)
Starter: Another boring day at school followed by a night of boring patrols. With all the big hollows being taken care of by “Full-fledged” Soul reapers it didn’t leave me with much opportunity to train against bigger enemies.
At least that’s what I thought originally. A few blocks from me there was a rift which opened up and the pure spiritual pressure that came from the hollow that stepped out of it was enough to make me feel as though gravity itself was pushing against me.
It was hard to breathe and even harder to stand as my hand clutched my blade in my left hand tightly. I shook my head as I heard the loud roar of the large breast and could even see it’s towering form from my position.
It was nothing close to a menos, but it was enough to tower over a three-story building for sure. “Shit.” I hissed to myself as I knew there were no soul reapers around at this stage. With a threat this big I was sure they’d come, but until then it was up to me to buy some time and make sure no humans or souls were consumed.
Pushing myself forward I reached the park that the Hollow had appeared in. Thankfully the park was deserted at this time of night. When he saw me the hollow. “You don’t smell like much, but you’ll do as a snack.” The hollow commented as it charged forward. “Just evade, buy time.” I comment to myself as I began to leap around the battle field looking a bit like and feeling like an idiot.
The hollow toyed with me a little while enjoying the chase before it seemed to ger bored. Just when I was thinking I was fast enough to keep avoiding it the creature’s mouth opened and its forked tongue shot out at me with faster speed than I was anticipating I raised my blade to defend myself but it was a feeble attempt and I knew it wouldn’t be enough.
Idea 5: One Piece. (So I’m not quite sure how to approach this one, but I’ll give it a go. Much like the MHA starter my character will have the power of persuasion, having eaten the Persua-Persua fruit. I’m thinking either he joins the Strawhats and goes on their adventures or he makes his own crew with girls from the story, I’m gonna leave it fairly open ended so we can jump in whenever along the story we wanna go!)
Starter: Alone in a bar I sat staring in the amber liquid in my mug. I was down on my luck after having my whole crew and my ship destroyed in a long battle another pirate crew. The only reason I was able to live through the ordeal was due to my crew sacrificing themselves to give me a chance to escape.
I spent days adrift with little food and water and soon washed up upon the island I was in. Immediately I found a tavern ready to drown my sorrows and feel sorry for myself for a little while.
Letting out a sigh I downed the rest of my drink soon looking at the few drops of liquid bottom of my mug. I knew being a pirate wouldn’t be easy, I knew it’d be violent and end in violence. However, to lose in that fashion without even being able to use my devil fruit to calm or question our opponent and losing everything still took its toll on me.
Scratching at the growing stubble with one hand, the other I raised my mug to demand another drink and as such the bartender approached to fill my mug. “You’re looking a little rough there, you sure you need another?” The bartender asked as he took the mug from me. “I don’t have anything else to do. I don’t even know what else to do with myself.” I responded grumpily. “Just fill it up.” I demanded. “Right.” The bartender responded as he filled it with more of the alcoholic amber liquid and slid It in front of me.
Idea 6: Sword Art Online. (Fairly simple it’s SAO set in the original death game. I love the idea, so I’ve always loved rping this one. If you want to play canon characters my fave is for sure Lizbeth, but I’m open to OC characters!)
Starter: It’s been months since Akihiko Kayaba has trapped us into this death game. Or at least that’s how some people looked at it. Others saw it as their dream come true. But most if not, all wanted to push forward and beat the game.
Despite the desire to push forward little progress has been made. Guilds and parties have formed to push through dungeons but with the increased danger and with it more deaths; more and more people simply decided to live out their lives on the lower floors.
Unlike those rushing in to push through the content I was happy enough to go through it at my own pace. This place was like a dream for me, save for the fact I had an increased chance of dying I was able to live in this game without the worries of the outside world.
I was doing some late-night grinding in an area of dense forest. The sun had set and there was little light save for the bright moon poking through the trees. All was calm, the trees swayed with the wind and the occasional sound of creatures moving about was enough to calm me.
However, the deeper I got into the forest the louder a sound became. At first it was quiet but as I approached, I heard it more clearly. It sounded like steel clashing against steel. Someone was fighting. Moving from a casual walk into a jog I quickly came to a small clearing where I saw two figures fighting, although in the low light I couldn’t make it out until I got closer.
Idea 7: Fairy Tail. (it’s been a little while since I’ve seen the series, but I’ve always loved it! Given my time away I might have to take some time to refamiliarize myself with the magics. My character will simply be an entry level member into the guild to begin with, canon characters are welcome just as OCs are!)
Starter: Another day in magnolia and another party being held at the large guild building at the centre of town. A large-scale job had just finished with some of the senior ranking wizards. and even though I wasn’t part of that mission, instead being on my own D-Rank job I joined in on the celebrations.
I had only been part of the guild for a few days and so far, it’s not been as exciting as I’d hoped, although I figured that it’d pick up once I proved myself. I was drinking by myself when I was approached by Makarov. He was wearing an essentric looking orange outfit. “Schwarzer my boy!” He said as he patted me on the shoulder. “How are you fitting in?” He questioned. “Fine sir! Everyone has been very welcoming.” I say to him in response. “Glad to hear it! You’ve been doing a good job, although I’d like to see you do more.” The male said. “So I’ve arranged a partner for you on your next job, that way you can take something more challenging, what do you say?” He questioned.
“Yes of course!” I say eagerly as a smile spread across my face. “Great!” He said cheerfully. “I’ll introduce you to who you’ll be working with.” He said as he stood from his spot and lead the way over to a female clearing his throat loud enough to get their attention.
Idea 8: Avatar the Last Airbender. (So for this one I guess it can go two different ways. My fave girls from Avatar would probably be Ty Lee, Suki and Toph. Maybe my character is a powerful bender that either the fire nation or team Avatar wants on their side. I think it might be cool to think that Aang isn’t the only airbender and instead a small faction managed to escape and continue the lineage. Either that or my character is a powerful firebender of some kind. I’ll leave whichever you prefer to you in your first reply as I’ll leave it open ended.)
Starter: The world was at war ever since the Fire nation attacked. With the intense fighting came mercenaries. Freelance benders or soldiers ready to fight on either side. For a fee of course. And despite my age, being only eighteen I was quite renown amongst the other bounty hunters for my bending.
Of course, there were talks of the Avatar returning, having repelled an invasion in the south pole, the liberation of Omashu and then the fire nation prison. It seemed they were making quite the stir in the earth kingdom.
It’d only be a matter of time before they reached the small town, I was in. Perhaps they were already here. But if that was the case surely there would be some kind of stir. Pushing my hair from my face I ordered another drink from the barkeep. “You know you’re my favourite customer Schwarzer…. You’re the only one who consistently pays his tab. Unlike the rest of these soldiers or the workers around here.” The older man says in clear annoyance.
“Well who knows, if I wasn’t so successful, I’d probably mooch off you too.” I admitted with a grin. “Try not to talk too ill of the soldiers on either side.” I added on flicking him an extra coin for a tip once my drink was finished. “Well I better check if anyone has a job for me.” I say as I pushed myself up from my seat.
Idea 9: Persona. (So basically this is just gonna be a fairly interesting idea. My character along with the girls of persona 4 and 5 get stranded in this strange dimension where they have to fight their way out to make it back to their own worlds.)
Starter: It all happened so fast. One minute I was in a team meeting with my group discussing what we should use our newfound powers for next. And the next second, I had blinked and I was in some kind of strange room.
One by one more people were added into this room. Some of which were dressed in some elaborate costumes. And I frowned as I looked to each one of them, all of which I didn’t recognize at all and judging by their looks they didn’t recognize me. Although before we managed to introduce ourselves a booming voice broke the silence.
“Welcome all!” The clearly male voice commented. “To the room of my design.” He added on. “I’m sure you’re all confused. And no doubt you’ll want to return back to your homes. However, to do so you’ll need to enter my labyrinth. “Make it to the end and you’ll all return home.” The voice explained.
“Of course, this maze isn’t without its dangers. Enemies, much like you encounter on a regular basis will roam these halls. As well as beasts of my own design far stronger than those… Fear no though for every check point you reach this room will become more furnished with amenities. For now, you simply have beds to rest on.” He said as there was an audible click and the dark room was suddenly lit up. Sure, enough there were rows of beds all lined up one for each person to sleep on.
“When you’re ready to test yourselves step through this door and enter the first level of the labyrinth.” He declared as a large door appeared and opened up in front of them. For a while nobody said anything probably all too stunned to even process the information. “So, I’m guessing we’re all persona users given what he just said.” I spoke up. “I guess we should probably start with names and strengths, right?” I questioned the group. “I’m Chris Schwarzer.” I say. “My persona Serapth focuses on ranged combat.” I explained.
Idea 10: Harry Potter. (So to keep this one interesting I’m thinking of having it set in an AU where Voldemort and Harry don’t exist. However, there are still dark wizards who are part of a cult around. Defs looking for a Hermionie, Luna or Ginny, you could even have other celebs/ecelebs as teachers or students for this one! Ocs are of course welcome too!)
Starter: Another year at Hogwarts, the last for some; and another year of learning was right around the corner. Although times were not peaceful in the wizarding world. Aurors who were the police of the magical world were going missing or showing up dead.
The ministry not wanting to make a panic kept it fairly under wraps, however some of the families have come forward with the information and rumours abounded about what was really happening. Stepping off the train I sighed a little rubbing my temple where a headache had begun to set in. During the train ride here, I found myself stuck next to a boy who wouldn’t stop going on about the rumours and conspiracy theories.
Glad to be off the train I looked around for a minute lost as to where I needed to go. “I know it’s around here somewhere.” I commented, although my sense of direction was always off. Usually I followed everyone else. But this time it seemed I was one of the last ones off the train.
Idea 11: Final Fantasy. (So this is simply going to be an idea with no starter since it will probably change depending on the many FF universes. My favourite however is defs FF7. (Tifa, Jessie and Aerith are best girls) with follow-ups being 12, 13, 15, 10, 8 and 9. Basically a fight would take the Main character of those series, Cloud, Noct, ect out of commission and needing a leader the other characters step up and hire mine on. Similar to some of my other prompts but I never said I was creative :^) With that being said though if you ARE interested in this one let me know and we can work out details depending on what world we’re in!)
Idea 12: The Witcher 3. (So my character will be a Witcher. (wow!) Saving people, hunting things you know? The family business. Anyway, I’m gonna leave it super open ended for you to come in however you like! If you wanna play a canon character my top two are for sure Ciri and Trist, and OC characters are accepted too!)
Starter: A Werewolf, an odd and rare contract, although I figured it wouldn’t be a hard one. In face I figured with my silver blade that the creature would go down rather quickly. Starting the encounter, I was faced with a harsh reality due to my hubris. I started off well enough, however due to my carelessness I was quickly on the backfoot.
The beast roared as it swung its large clawed hand towards me. I had barely managed to roll out of the way of the attack. Probably due to the increasing levels of bloodless resulting in a careless action on my part. A level of confidence quickly pushed down by the fact a handful of open wounds stung at my flanks.
More scars for later given that I make it out of here, although with my silver blade thrown on the other side of the area leaving me with only a steel sword which barely even phases the thing. I had to reach my blade, although with my focus on dodging the attacks it was hard to find an opening to do so.
I raised a hand and cast the igni sign launching flames at the creature who leapt back and I tried my best to make it past the creature only to have to dodge another strike as the beast recovered remarkably fast. “Stubborn bastard, aren’t you?” I questioned a little sourly.
Idea 13: Fantasy harem adventure. (This one is fairly basic in nature. Basically, a young man with little combat experience leaves his poor hunting village once he’s of age and sets off to join the adventurer’s guild to make a name for himself and also to send money back home. He’s fairly modest, naive and kind hearted. Which makes him likable and easy to take advantage of.
We could add a story with war elements, racism and darker themes to show him that the world he idolizes isn’t as cracked up as he thought it’d be. Ideally, I’d like a full harem party for this one but I’m cool with one on one too.)
Starter: It had been a few days since I was finally able to leave the small village, I was raised in behind me. Sword on hip and keen to become an adventurer. Of course, I also wanted to make a name for myself and I was even more excited to see everything the world had to offer. With driving me forward I headed from my village over to the closest city which had a guild branch. A city called Ruan. It was nearly five times the size of my village if not more and yet it was nothing close to the capital city of Grancel.
Smooth dirt paths soon gave way to cobblestone and my boots clacked rhythmically against the pavement as my steps soon got faster and faster as Ruan came into view. My stomach was in knots as I gripped the straps on my bag tightly and after steeling my nerves and taking in the sight of the large city, I headed through the large stone arch to the busy streets beyond.
My excited eyes looked around at every nook and cranny as I took in every detail that was on offer. Soon coming across the large marble and wood building of the adventurer’s guild in front of me. I stood in front of the large building clearly awestruck and for a moment I felt completely overwhelmed. This was it. This was the first step I was going to take on my journey and yet I felt far too nervous to head inside. Instead I stood there shaking slightly as I tried to work up the courage to push those large oak doors aside and declare my presence to the world.
Idea 14: Man of the town. (So again the premise is also pretty basic. My character wakes up in a town where there’s no men, as if they all vanished at once. Including his father which leaves him home alone with his sister and mother. (It’s up to you if you want incest in the plot or not.) We can have a story with an element of mystery to it too if you want! Or we can just bounce around the town having him bonk as many different people as you want.)
Starter: It’s been a few weeks since all the men in the town vanished one day. One day they were there and the next they were gone. There was of course a panic even though it is much calmer than originally, it continues to creep in the back of everyone’s mind. It doesn’t help the fact that no outsiders have come into the town and some strange thick fog seems to stop everyone from leaving.
However, with no answers it was left to the women of the town to pick up the slack and try to push for some level of normalcy. Except for me it seemed. Since the whole act started, I was in lockdown not being free to leave my home since my mother and sister was much too paranoid that I’d disappear too. With the amount of time I spent indoors going stir crazy I began to wonder if it was better to be wherever the rest of them are.
Today was different though and finally I was given the chance to leave the house while my mother was careless and rather quickly, I headed out into the street just glad to take in the scenery as I headed over to a nearby park. I headed over the soft grass feeling it beneath my shoes and then to the pond where I took a seat on one of the mounted benches.
Idea 15: Zombie and Nuclear Apocalypse. (Not a whole lot to say here other than it’s one of your run of the mill Zombie/Nuclear apocalypse scenarios. I might toy with the idea of having multiple zombie types like games such as Dying light and Left for dead in order to spice things up a little but we’ll see where we go with it. As for nuclear I’ll probably be following along the Fallout franchise. Being part of these worlds will probably make my character a bit more brash, blunt and even a little rude. However, given some time he’ll warm up.)
Zombie Starter: No one knows quite when the outbreak started, however it swept over the globe causing panic. People eating people. People dying and coming back to life as a shambling corpse joining the armies of similar creatures. Society crumbled over time and the cities which were now hot zones for hordes of the undead creatures were left abandoned to all but the most daring or desperate of individuals. However, these rabid hordes weren’t the only thing to look out for in the apocalypse.
Society had begun to reform in its most primal form. People grouped together for safety. Those who just wanted to live peacefully became easy prey for those who saw the end of the world as we knew it as a playground to kill pillage and steal what they’d like. These bandits created their own factions with their own fortresses and seemed to have an endless supply of guns and ammo as they used it quite liberally.
I had been on the trail of a particularly nasty group of bandits as they razed whatever small settlements, they had to the ground callously and without mercy. I had just arrived at one of these towns. Dying people lay scattered about while fires licked at the makeshift buildings. It was still quite fresh. Approaching a nearby body which seemed to be moving slightly I turned it over the man was in bad shape and was clearly on death’s door. His eyes looking into mine in a pleading sense.
“Do you want me to make it quick?” I asked him reaching my left hand down to my machete which hung on my belt. Weakly his hand reached out to grip my right as he gave a nod. I knew the death wouldn’t be clean, as I unsheathed my blade. However, I couldn’t waste any ammo on my pistol nor could I risk tipping off the bandits that did this that I was following them. With a quick swing I slammed the blade into the head of the man ending his life and after wiping the blade off on his shirt I slid it back into its sheath my eyes scanning the immediate area for any of the undead which had turned or for a slim chance of getting a glimpse of survivors.
Nuclear Apocalypse Starter:
The world as we knew it ended in a flash. A white light followed by a rumble which washed over the world in nuclear fire. Billions died then and there reducing the world’s population to the brink. Those who were lucky to survive a direct blast were mutated to become much different than humans and more akin to zombies. Those outside of it didn’t have much quality of life as the radiation created mutated creatures which made living in a barren wasteland that much harder.
There were others however who were lucky enough to be given a spot in giant underground vaults. There they lived out their lives separated from the horrors that this new world wrought. One by one these vaults opened to allow these vault dwellers into the wasteland that was our world.
Their blue suits and clueless natures made them stand out and become easy prey to raiders, giant creatures and everything in between. Many of them didn’t get far before being gutted and robbed for their illusive vault suits which earned enough to feed a scavenger or bandit for a month.
The world and society began to rebuild. And with small settlements and towns popping up here and there it wasn’t all doom and gloom for the wasteland. Many were able to create jobs in local milita, mercenary work. Even trading or bartending.
I was such a mercenary a few generations of my family lived through the bombing and the radiation which was lucky enough for me, I guess. I was hired to do whatever someone wanted for the right price. And today I was tasked with delving into a recently opened vault and check make contact with the inhabitants inside.
Colt python on my waist I headed over to the large vault door which at this point was sealed shut and knocked loudly. This job seemed rather easy and was paying a lot which made me wonder who I was working for and what purpose they had with these vault dwellers. However, I wasn’t paid to ask questions nor did I really care at the end of the day. The less I knew the less guilt I could feel.
Idea 16: Space/Scifi. (So this is a scifi adventure. My character is the captain of his own ship and is currently looking for recruits to join him and help run it. There will probably be lots of interesting planets our characters go to and I’ll certainly be making them up as we go along! Your character can range as anything from a human to android or even an alien.)
Starter: Stepping out of The Tempest I breathed in the humid station air of Astra station. The station which was on the furthest reaches of the space ruled over the galactic council; was a haven for the depraved. Outlaws, mercenaries, drug dealers you name it Astra has it and in bountiful supply too.
Which made it a perfect spot to find someone who was desperate to get off the station. Someone who would work for cheap or for free. All I needed to do was to find them. “Schwarzer, don’t forget to stock up on food, military rations are sad.” A voice commented through the earpiece I had. “Yeah. I’ll head through the slums and to the market. Thanks, Evai.” I responded. “And don’t cause any trouble, I don’t wanna rot in this ship while you’re dead.” The voice added on. “Yeah yeah I’ve got it.” I responded as the communication line was severed and I started on my walk.
I headed through a nearby door and down into the depths of the station. Soon I the overcrowded and frankly smelly slums. Beggars and gang members lined every corner all looking at me with a cautious eye as I passed. There were even a few tweaked out drug users laying scattered about in some dark corners. Even a few corpses.
I didn’t stop though, if you stayed in one place too long down here you were asking to be jumped and quickly, I pushed on heading over to the bustling markets. The food quality here wasn’t the best although it was abundant. I even talked to a few of the store owners to see if they knew where I could find the extra hands to help me on my ship.
Idea 17: Brother sisteMother son (Or both). (So, this starter is gonna be fairly generic, however it’s open to allowing any of the familial ties to be easily included. I have a few ideas for immediate family and will post them below and if you have any ideas, I’m happy to hear them.)
Starter: It’s a hot and lazy day in the middle of summer break. I had laid splayed out on the couch at home. Despite the air conditioner being on full blast my skin underneath my tank top was getting stuck to the leather couch; which did little to alleviate the heat fluster that was going on. I sighed after looking over the back of the couch to the pool outback longingly. I sighed a little resigning myself to bite the bullet and peeled myself from the couch.
As much as I wanted to strip down and run out, I wasn’t entirely sure if I was home alone and as such, I headed up to my room to change into a pair of swimming trunks before heading back downstairs. Passing through the laundry and grabbing a towel on the way.
I headed onto the back deck and draped my towel over the railing before I rushed over and leapt into the pool immediately feeling the cool water wash away any of the heat I had been feeling. I resurface and breathed a sigh of relief as I pushed my messy hair back from my face.
Idea 18: Aunt/Cousin (Can be both). (Again like the incest scene above I’m not quite sure how to spruce this one up so I’ll leave it rather basic and we can go from there.)
Starter: My family has gone on holiday without me as I had to stay behind due to being caught up in exams. Rather than meeting up with them later they decided it would be more fun for me if I finished them up then headed over to spend some time with my Aunt and my cousin across the county. While I wouldn’t be leaving the country, I was still getting a vacation in a way and as such I tried my best to be upbeat and positive about it, even if I was envious of the others.
While it wasn’t the same pristine beaches and high-class resorts that the rest of my family was going to, I was still grateful for the hospitality. The plane lands in the airport and after collecting my bags and checking my phone for a confirmation I was going to be picked up I sent my family and my aunt and cousin a quick text telling them I landed safely. After gathering my small suitcase from the conveyor belt, I wheeled it through security and out to the meeting area keeping my eyes peeled for any sign of my cousin or my auntie. There was a little confusion about who was going to greet me so I wasn’t sure who to expect myself.
Idea 19: Incest family vacation. (So, this one is again going to be like the other two before it. They kinda roll off each other in a way. However, I believe it allows for a wide range of engagements with multiple characters at some kind of beach resort.)
Starter: It’s the dead middle of another scorching summer and rather than tough it out in our homes which has air-conditioning which never seemed to help, our large family decided to all go to a large resort (Could even be a cruise too) together. Many of the rooms were rather luxurious and I was more than excited to see what the rest of the hotel had to offer.
We pulled up into the lobby and while the parents were checking in I headed over to check out a map on the wall. It seemed there were quite a lot of different things to do around the resort. There was a pool with a poolside bar, a beach which had volleyball games, a massage parlour, hot tubs and many different activities ranging from native dances to eating competitions.
Just the realization we were here and the excitement at the many possibilities that could come from the vacation. Maybe I’d even meet someone nice and have a vacation fling. Although with so many family members running around, I doubted that I’d get much peace to do that. Regardless I was eager to get up to the room, have a shower and change into my swimming trunks to explore all the different places.
We headed up to the rooms where I noticed mine had a large double bed. However, judging by my mother’s comments outside It seemed there was some kind of mix-up in the rooms and I’d be sharing the room with one of my family members. Not that I minded too much. I placed my suitcase down and waited to see who would come in and if they were interested in joining me look around.
Closing words: So yeah that’s about it! Thanks for reading and if you have any questions or suggestions, I’m open to hearing them! I know this was probably a big read so thanks again for your time and I hope to talk to some of you soon!
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2020.11.29 00:48 edm_2222 Live sex and chat

A little bit of a backstory me and this guy have known each other almost 2 years he moved to my town in 2018 and we met in 2019. He was really sweet when I first met him and he had a really great personality we are dated often on for just a couple weeks at a time until we dated for three months broke it off didn’t talk for four months. We reconnected in January and dated for almost 11 months this time.
He’s two years older than me and in the beginning he was really really sweet all throughout January and then February came and he started talking about me behind my back to a friend. We had spent every day for two weeks together until he left with his parents to go on a little vacation the day after Valentine’s Day. Time goes on he decides he wants to join the military we take a little break to make sure we want to do long distance and we have been fighting a lot because of quarantine. After about two weeks we get back together and that’s when it really started he showed me messages where he had talked bad about me to a friend of his and told me he was sorry and he would never do it again. Well a couple days before my birthday he did it again to another friend. He started to try and take me away from my family and friends and isolate me and on my birthday he spent the night with me and another one of my friends spent the night also. He kept trying to get me alone and away from everyone and he wanted to sleep in my room and my bed just me and him. I told him no and we slept out in the living room with my friend on an air mattress. The day before he got mad at me because I wanted him to come over and he was getting really mad because I was a little upset that he was taking so long and he blew up at me and I ended up apologizing. That day was the first day he ever bought me a gift to make up for how he treated me he also did it the day after my birthday because he got mad at me the morning of the day after. July comes around and it’s about our six month anniversary and I was upset that he had to work the day and I told him that it would be OK that we could celebrate our anniversary another day and he got mad at me and he came over that night after work. Not even a week later he yelled at me for the first time and continued to tell my friend how immature I was and how he wish I would grow up and how terrible I was to him. I tried my best not to get upset with him when he would do stuff like this and I would always apologize and he would buy me gifts and in return I would do stuff for him and I got to the point where the stuff he wanted me to do for him was sexual. Around the end of July beginning of August he got mad at me and the thing he wanted me to do was to have sex with him without protection now I’m on the pill and he made me take a Plan B but it was still really scary and then afterwards because I was crying and throwing up all over myself he took me out to get something to eat. All throughout August he was buying me gifts left and right and getting mad at me up almost every single day and then he left for basic. I wrote him letters every day pouring my heart out to him telling him how much I loved him and how much I missed him and I couldn’t wait for it to be over so we could talk again and he promised that if a IT allowed it he would video chat with me every day and talk with me every day and text me. After a week or two of him being there he got his orders and then a week later he broke up with me because he didn’t think we could do long-distance anymore and I was childish and immature and he was tired of sitting around all day talking to me and how I never let him do anything. I never cared what he did I just wanted him to be safe. It was the one who always wanted to know where I was what I was doing and who I was with. Not too long ago I thought I was pregnant with his kid and I had told him that he called me a liar and a cheater and now we have no contact. And somehow he still makes me feel like everything that went wrong is my fault that I really am the immature one and I didn’t deserve to be with him. I hate how he still has this power over me and I wish it would stop. I know for a matter of fact he stocks all of my accounts because I can tell when he blocked unblocked me because it was a seen on all of our messages. Any advice on how to get over this?
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2020.11.28 23:31 acojosh Live chat and sex


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Hi everyone, I'm a 22 year old male who is romantically attracted to other men. Up until early adulthood my love life used to be very fruitless as I used to believe I was pretty undesirable. Throughout my life I have received strange flirtatious energy from other "straight "guys that still leaves me confused to this day. One example was while chatting with a classmate in a foodcourt, he started talking about looking for "his boo" and looked me up and down with wistful eyes, and thats only one example out of many. There's just this weird look I'm given sometimes that I don't know if I'm reading too much into, but a psychic once told me that I had missed many opportunities due to my own blockages.
I can confidently say I've been told I'm pretty cute, have a good sense of humor, pretty masculine looking, but I have a comfortable balance between my masculinity and femininity, I wonder if they might be drawn to that?
When I have sexual encounters with other guys, I can usually only have one or two hookups before they suddenly become lovey dovey with me as if they were enchanted, and I have to cut it off before their feelings intensify.
And right now, I'm in a weird position with someone I wish to be partners with, but we are taking a lot of time to decide for it to be in a relationship because he lives in another country and our relationship status is currently in limbo.
Overall, energies of love, sex, romance and attraction towards me has been a bit of a weird area in my life, never working out for me exactly the way I'd like. I'm honestly curious if these can be read in my chart, if anyone has any thoughts.
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2020.11.28 21:48 eriol13 Live sex and chat

I'm 25 friends with X, a lawyer from out of town. We met on the staff of a convention and in the years since she moved to a different state. She has a new boyfriend which I supported her getting, and also with her most recent breakup as a I'm a sociologist. We had been chatting online a lot more over the past year and she decided to invite herself over to my house and book plane tickets with only 2 weeks notice. She said that she had business to do in the state and wanted to visit on the weekend before continuing on to do her work, and mentioned that I had offered months earlier that she was welcome to stay at my place. I live on my own in a 2 bedroom apartment. I spent a significant time organising my life for her stay (cleaning, finding an extra bicycle and organising appropriate sleeping arrangements) .
It was a very hot day yesterday. I live in Australia so it's summer, and there was a bit of a heat wave. We had a great day just hanging out. We had breakfast, and I had a community thing I had to do outside which was planned for weeks before she came, and it ended up lasting longer than I expected. We then had lunch, cycled to the beach and had an overall good time.
When we got back home we put our bikes away, X wanted to have a stretch, and I have these thick foam mats which are perfect for that. I pointed that out, and asked if she wanted to stretch together. She was reticent, because she said she was sweaty from the ride home, but I said that I clean the mats down regularly, and I don't mind them getting a little messy. She thanked me, and started stretching. I went and changed out of my board shorts into some activewear tights for stretching, and then joined her.
At this point she was using my foam roller to massage the bottom of her neck while laying in her back. She said it was tense. I was doing a pidgin stretch. Hearing that her head was tense, I started talking about how I had been practicing scalp massage with a friend of mine who is a professional sports and remedial masseuse. I got up and sat behind her head while talking, and after a bit begun to give her head a bit of a soft scratch with the tips of my fingers, and as I started I asked if she liked it.
She immediately demanded that I stop touching her, which I did immediately, appologised and left the room. I poured myself a cup of water from the tap. As I recoiled, she berated me about why I thought I could touch her, and that I wouldn't just touch some random's head without consent. I said that I thought we were close enough friends, we had been doing active things all day, we had bumped into each other (shoulders and such) on the beach, and it was just a scalp massage, it's not like it was sexual.
She then asked if I had watched a youtube video about consent involving tea. I said tgat I had, but I didn't like it because it doesn't make any allowances for non-verbal communication, and so from my research in sociology and linguistics isn't a descriptige model but rather a prescriptive model, which is new. And besides, I wasn't initiating anything like that, it was a head massage, which I stopped as soon as she indicated that it was uncomfortable, and ultimately lasted two seconds.
Most of my older female friends that come around just come around ruffle my hair and give it a scratch like it's nothing. She hadn't previously made me seem like I couldn't touch her (re:bumping into her in the waves at the beach earlier that day)
She then said that she wanted to leave. I then sat out of the way, remarking that that I didn't understand why it was such a big deal. She said something about previously being assaulted before, and I had no idea, and that that was terrible. And througout it all I apologised, pointed out that we had just had an excellent day, and that I thought it was a bit much to pack up everyting and leave over what was a very short lived misunderstanding. She then called me a creep and said that other women at the event we attended years earlier thought so too. I said "well that's just hurtful" very calmly and without a rise at all, even though it was quite an insult considering previous conversations we have had about how self-conscious I am about my appearance.
She then left saying that she hoped that I have a good life, and that she was going to a hotel.
I was, and still am the next day in shock.
I sent her this message a few hours later on facebook

"After the unfortunate alteration which happened tonight I wanted to leave a record of what happened from my perspective which you may appreciate later.
After arriving back at my home we stowed our bikes and things, and you stated you wanted to stretch, and I pointed out I had my mats to do so. I then realised I was in inappropriate stretching attire so I went into my bedroom to change into activewear tights which were more appropriate. After doing some stretching, you noticed and complained on how tight your head and neck muscles were as you used my foam roller. I then slowly and transparently made non-verbal cues such as my repositioning and proceeded to begin a scalp massage accompanied with the question "do you like this" (which is a textbook way of asking consent by many models even though I wasn't thinking of that sort of thing because of it being a completely platonic gesture) You were startled, indicated your concern at my touching of your body, and I immediately stopped, apologised and left the room. You then continued to berate me. You exclaimed "what would make you think you could touch me?" I responded that I thought we had reached an appropriate level of friendship (we have hugged before and lay closely together in scant clothing on the beach earlier that day). Then you indicated that I should have watched a particular video of a particular model of consent (one which is still yet to be legally codified). I mentioned that while I had seen the video, I found it very constricting and not an accurate description of most cultural depictions of consent I have seen in my/our culture. You then demanded to leave. I didn't hinder you in any way. I apologised and tried to calmly engage you even after you insulted me. You then left.
I'm still a little bit confused as to how this escalated from a really fantastic day to this, but I understand that you will need your time. I really do hope this doesn't cause irrevocable damage to our friendship, but I do understand that at this point that is likely.
I'm still sorry that my intended gesture of kindness was interpreted so catastrophically negatively, and I still hope you have a lovely week. I only wish you well."
She then sent this message and blocked me
">You do not touch people without asking for permission first. Had you asked, you would have found the answer to be "no". And it was "no" even in actual fact when you proceeded to try yo massage my head (suddenly and roughly) and only then ask after you had already done it.
As to your behaviour thereafter to expiation it was away, that's rejected. The attempt to twist it any other way to present that the concept of "consent" is misguided and suggesting that it wasn't even necessary was a supreme error on your part. You are still in the wrong at law and in accordance to my personal position in relation to anyone touching me (you wouldn't know that if course because you went ahead and did it thinking it fine according to textbooks) .
Hence, I will keep this record as supportive evidence for anyone else you may try to do this to in future. So let that be a warning to you as to anyone else you try that on.
I reserve my right to bring this to the attention of the police should you try anything further."
I don't understand how we went from sharing a desert of gelato cones on the beach to this in less than 2 hours. I have never thought or said that consent was unnecessary with sex, just that it is a lot more complicated than many popular sources portray it.
I'm now feeling quite mentally unwell. I have a very low level autistic spectrum disorder and Bipolar, and I haven't felt this unstable in years. I'm skyping my therapist tomorrow because of covid.
Even now I'm playing it back in my head, I still don't think I did anything specifically wrong at least not wrong enough for this sort of outcome, and I followed all the training, research and experience I have done in my life, and I have done a lot.
TL:dr I'm in shock after a friend blew up over a misunderstanding. Everyone in the situation is hurt, I'm sad that I have lost an irl friend and I'm afraid that she has threatened to file a lawsuit. I can't see my therapist until tomorrow, and so I needed to convey this to an unbias audience for feedback.
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2020.11.28 18:30 scrappywheelz And sex live chat

There is this weird phenomenon about people. I'm not sure how to explain it because I'm just as guilty of anyone of doing it. It's that thing where you think everything is fine. Life is rolling along. The marriage while still rocky is livable. Then you get on the phone with your mom. Or friend, or sister, or whoever and you start telling them about stuff that's going on in it. And then it dawns on you pretty quickly that while things are livable, they're not going like you told your spouse they needed to go. It's like I'm intentionally putting blinders on because it's easier to sit here and pretend everything is ok because about 80% of the time it is, so that it's easier to put up with the shit he does every once in a while. Case in point. I've been doing a lot of thinking and I've come up with two dealbreakers in our marriage that I don't think would be asking too much, if he truly cared about me and my feelings.
1) Sex more than once a week, even if he has to hand job me or use toys or whatever. This includes but is not limited to helping me along even if he doesn't feel like it and he gets nothing out of it. Spelling it out like this sounds terrible but in fact I have done this numerous times for him over the years. I always felt bad during the years where I was on the harsher anti-depressants that killed my libido and I was raising babies and small children. He'd want to and I wouldn't but it had been a while and so I'd let him do his thing because I cared about his needs. But I have since found out that this does not apply to him at all. If he doesn't feel like it, and he doesn't get anything out of it, he won't do it. Period. No toys. No hand job. Nothing. And despite what he told me when I got back from my parents house at the beginning of the month we are still on a once a week schedule. And despite what he promised me, he still has not made an appointment to see his doctor about LT. In fact, we got into an argument, on Monday morning because Sunday, he said he was going to take some time for alone time. Which never happened. He tried to defend himself and said he said "later" which supposedly included anywhere from bedtime all the way until 8 or 9am the next morning. He's been married to me for nearly 19 years. He can count on one hand the number of times we've had morning nookie. I am not a morning person. So on Monday morning when I refused his advances because I had better things to do than wait around for him to decide to service me, he got butt-hurt. Started flinging around "You're the one that says you'd have it every day if you could." Yes, every day but not all 24 hours of it. He was upset I wouldn't give it to him when he wanted it. Sound familiar? Oh, yes. Have we taken a step back? Yes we have. He tried again the next day and was so rough with me I haven't let him touch me since then. Yet again, another step back because he once again completely ignored my needs or my request for needs. But if you ask him, I'm just hard to get off.
2) I want him when I talk to him to actually engage in the conversation with me. Not just listen, not just nod his head. Engage. Our marriage, our whole relationship was founded on the fact that we could talk to each other for hours, literally. 3-4 hours a night. I lived in Utah, he lived in Texas. Our foundation was talking. But somewhere along the way he decided that talking was getting in the way of his happy time. Or maybe that talking included topics that bored him, like what his kids did that day. Or maybe he never managed to figure out or appreciate the fact that his wife is a cerebral, thinking kind of person, a 'what if' kind of person and that talking is one of the outlets her crazy brain uses to put out good but sometimes off the wall ideas. Whatever it was, the communication died. He was trying really hard three weeks ago when he was sure I'd left him after I'd gone with my parents house. Called me every night. Wanted to know what we'd been up to. After we got home, he'd come in our room and want to sit and chat after work, blah, blah blah. Fast forward to this last week and a half and well, let's just say that I'm apparently boring again. He'd come home, I'd start talking about something and the next thing I know, he's snoring. I get it, he's tired from work, but this isn't a random occasion. If he lays down, he's out no matter what I'm talking about. If he has electronics of any kind within eyesight, he won't have heard a word I've said. And he'll lie about having heard it, even though it's quite obvious he hasn't. Now to some people you'd be like, "That's not such a big deal." It is to me. I love good conversation. I love the back and forth. I suffer from middle child syndrome that way. I want to be heard. I came from a large family and I spent a lot of my time not having my own voice heard because there were other louder voices that drown me out. I thought I'd had caught myself a husband who was perfect for me in that regard. But again, bait and switch. He pretended to be all the things I needed him to be. Then went right back to doing what he wanted without regards to how I would feel about it. Certainly, almost from day one the day-to-day conversation went bye-bye because once he got home all he felt like doing was playing World of Warcraft. It was too exhausting talking to his wife. This is a prime example of his dad's shitty school of husband-hood. A wife is there to do all the shit I don't want to do, put up with all the shit I give out, put out when I want it and don't bother me when I'm doing something I like doing. If she doesn't, she's the bad person, because at least I'm not going out cheating on her, beating her, doing drugs or looking at porn.
During the argument about sex earlier in the week, it was kind of funny. I was mad. He apparently felt I didn't have a right to be and told me, "Don't be mad at me." to which I responded, "Don't tell me what to do." I apparently had to clarify that for him. "Don't tell me how to feel." I sure as hell will get mad at you if I want to. And stay mad at you if I want to. I have that right. This sort of sums up what I'd been saying just a bit ago. I am expected to put up with his shit without having feelings about it. Or rather, put up with his shit without letting him know about my feelings because he honestly doesn't care I have any. To care means you have to do something about them, and he doesn't want to do that.
My mom worries that if I leave him that it will be one more time in his life where someone abandoned him. His mom did, when she divorced his dad when he was 13. His dad did when he became a raging alcoholic around the same time frame. His first wife didn't leave him technically, J was the one that filed for divorce, but she had checked out of the marriage a long time before that because he was gone all the time on deployments in the military. She was a single married woman and wanted to stay that way. He didn't. But I had to remind her that if I leave him, it's because I'm trying to salvage what's left of my self-respect. That I feel like I've failed my children. I should have held his feet to the fire a long time before this. A very long time before this. Now I worry that my daughter will think that it's totally normal or ok if your partner ignores you when they don't want to have to deal with you. That they only pay attention to you when you do something that upsets them or when they need something. And I worry that my sons have learned that the only thing a woman is good for is to cater to the needs of her man. I should have been showing them that either marriage is where both parties cater to each others needs or they don't belong together. But I didn't. And now it's probably too late to model that for them.
One last thing and something that stirred up some major feels for me, that had me bawling like a baby, was something my brother put on Facebook. I know about closed doors and all that but my brother isn't one to over-exaggerate or boast about his awesomeness or anything like that. He was doing the 7 Days of Thankfulness and his post went something like this: I'm thankful for my wife, she's an amazing wife and mother, I love her so much, I definitely married up, and she still makes my heart skip beats when she walks into a room. Folks, they've been married for 20 years. I thought I had that when I married J. I found out I didn't. I stayed because I wanted to make it work. I wanted him to say stuff like that about me, because I used to brag about him all the time. I didn't stand up for myself when I should have. I didn't make him accountable when I needed to. And now, I'm just waiting. Waiting for the day when I can say absolutely that he stopped trying once again to be the husband I need him to be. Or maybe I'm just waiting to get through the holidays. Either way, after talking to my mom today, I'm not sure there's much he can do, if there had ever been anything he could have done that will salvage our marriage. Not because I'm a bitch. Not because I didn't want to give him a chance. Not because I want to leave him out in the cold to fend for himself. But because if he finds it too hard to do even half the things my father did for my mom as a husband then I don't want to be married anymore. I'd rather be single for the rest of my life than put up with a man who takes me for granted and thinks the only thing I'm good for his to take care of his needs. If I want to be taken for granted for taking care of someone's needs but still loves me anyway, I've got three kids I've got left to raise and they'll keep me busy for at least the next eight years.
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